Quote Originally Posted by Shadoom
My first question is: Can forced orgasms be harmful?
Unless your wife has a heart condition or she is prone to hyperventilating, I can't see anything wrong with forced orgasms. If she has passed out in the past, then certainly make sure you have 911 on speed-dial just in case, but if she comes to without any problems it shouldn't be a concern.

My second question is: Does anyone have suggestions as to creative ways to stimulate an orgasm, beyond the obvious?
Aside from the ever-popular tongue?

I'm wondering about toys -- I see those clit vibrators, and wonder if they really work. I'd appreciate hearing from people abouut their experiences.
I know for a fact that the butterfly vibes work really well. Also, the massagers used for your shoulders and back can be great, too. Other than that, I don't know what else to tell you.