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    Hello

    Hi all,

    Just a quick hello. Been interested in the lifestyle a long time, have some experience, am a male switch, am happily married to a vanilla spouse, and am happy to have a place to look around, and contribute when sensical (or just plain silly).

    Also, it would be nice to meet some people into bdsm in real life - so if you're in NYC (or better yet, brooklyn) drop me a line!

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    Welcome to the forum It's a nice community of people, I hope you have a nice time

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    Hello and welcome! We can do "just plain silly" without a doubt!
    Working too much....and unfortunately not online as much as I'd like.

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    hello and welcome to the community!!

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    Welcome, glad to have you with us!

    And glad to hear of someone happily married to a vanilla spouse; that seems like the most common complaint I hear, so I can't wait to see your advice on how to deal with such a situation!!!
    Back!
    With your fiendish books of gods
    With suffering self-righteous pain
    Back!
    With Hell-fire and vicious rods
    With repressed passion gone insane
    Back!
    I won't lose my soul, too.

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    I am who I am!
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    WELCOME To the forums! Great to have you here!
    Many a false step is made by standing still

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    Welcome
    The game of life is hard to play . . .
    . . . you gonna lose it anyway








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    Hello bklnswitch and to the forums.

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    Once you put your hand in the flame,
    You can never be the same.
    There's a certain satisfaction
    In a little bit of pain.
    I can see you understand.
    I can tell that you're the same.
    If you're afraid, well, rise above.
    I only hurt the ones I love.

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    Hi All - thanks much for the welcomes. I really do have to get myself a nice avatar soon - although it will be hard to match the ones in this thread...

    ElectricBadger (great name btw), re being happily married to a vanilla spouse... well it's not necessarily easy. But through lots of talk, and - on my part - accepting that everything else is great, and worth curbing my wilder desires for, and the occasional (well, so far only once in 13 yrs) extra-marital bdsm transgression, I manage well for now. I don't know where things will go in the future, we have explored the idea of possibly seeing other people (with mutual consent) but are as of yet not willing to take that step, as it brings a lot of great unknowns into play. For me, at the moment, the pros in my marriage far outweigh the cons, which makes me happy - but I would like to at some point have my cake and eat it too... But more on this in various other threads when fitting.

    Thanks again!

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    much welcome to this friendly bunch
    Sir to my girl.
    Daddy

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