My hubby just made me a swing that hangs from the ceiling...very exciting, and hangs at the perfect level, which can be adjusted to whatever you want. Also spins, and rocks besides going back and forth. I just tried a clitty pump for the first time....awesome sensation, like nothing I've ever experienced! He has gotten many many toys to play with...but being very new at this, I'm having a hard time adjusting to them, but I'm trying very hard to have an opened mind with it all. Any suggestions on how I can open up and enjoy everything BDSM has to offer?