I am sexually submissive but this side of me doesn't actually affect other sides of my life. I could never think of letting anyone step on my toes. This attitude often makes (Dom-)people wonder if I'm a subbie at all

My sub element is strong but I am known as a 'no-nonsense' kind of person. Submissiveness is there and it's a big part of me, but it doesn't mean I give it to anyone to play with

Sometimes I meet a dominant person who brings my subbie personality alive also in non-sexual situations, but at those moments there's always a hint of sexual tension even if the other person doesn't notice it.