1. How old were you? I was in my early teens when I began having D/s fantasies, though now I recognize the submissive tendencies I sometimes showed when I was younger. Eventually, I discovered what I fantasized about was called BDSM and was quite normal and I embraced each new thing I learned about the lifestyle.

2. Who or what opened your eyes to BDSM? When I was 17 I discovered the internet and the joys of information being available to me at the click of a mouse button. Through my searches to find more information on BDSM, I discovered this site and also like minded people who were willing to discuss the lifestyle with me.

3. Did you get to experience it at a club or party? I've never been to one.

4. What was your physical and emotional reactions when you saw your first scene? I've never seen a live scene.

5. Are there any people on this forum that are vanilla and participating or lurking to find out if they should take the plunge? I'm sure that there are considering that I myself was a lurker for a long time before I felt I was ready to reach out and talk to people in the lifestyle. I'm glad I did too.

~Artemis~