1. How old were you?
About 22

2. Who or what opened your eyes to BDSM?
...fucking with a younger (18) woman

3. Did you get to experience it at a club or party?
...she asked to me to squeeze her tits hard...no harder than that! I was wide eyed at the thought but obliged. Then somehow we ended up with light spanking during doggy and that soon progressed to fairly brutal spanking once it became clear she got *off* on it.

4. What was your physical and emotional reactions when you saw your first
scene?
Well after that initiation I found The Story of O and tried to fumble my way through some more experimentation. It wasn 't until the advent of the internet at home some years later that I was able to really start learning and make contact with others.

5. Are there any people on this forum that are vanilla and participating or lurking to find out if they should take the plunge?
Are there?...who knows? Probably...I guess. My view is that you don't know what you're missing till you try. Why die wondering? Equally, I remember it being a huge step to take and really its important that you can know in yourself that its time for the plunge.