Quote Originally Posted by princessofkink View Post
Not having read the book I can't give first hand testimony on its contents, but I have been paying attention to the debate between its advocates and critics. Those who voice concerns have said that The Secret (essentially) places blame for life's negative occurrences squarely in the lap of the individual (i.e., "It's your fault you got cancer/become the victim of a violent crimes/ lost your jobs and home/etc., by virtue of your negative thought processes.") Which in my humble opinion, could be sufficient reason for concern when considering the fragile emotional/psychological states of individuals most likely to be drawn in by such outlandish promises.

I have just finished reading the book, and yes it does seem to promote that negative thinking creates a negative life.
The book almost seems to create the fantasy that if you wish hard enough, you will get what you want.

I can understand the power of positive thinking thus creating better self esteem, self confidence and and a healthier more positive approach to life.

I find it crass that they tout it to be a new and marvelous idea that will definately change your life forever.

And thank you Alex, I hope my brother does get better, he has had the best doctors working for him, but when the odds are stacked against you, there are no secret methods that can help. I am there for him when he needs me and that is the best that I can do.