Quote Originally Posted by Lilly My Sweet
Hehe, hardly ever...if ever. My submissive side reveals itself in the bedroom and that's it. Though I am very easy going, I have a very 'take charge' personality and I don't feel right not being on top of things. The few people in my life that know that I am into BDSM at first assumed that it was becasue I enjoyed playing a dominant role in the bedroom. Ha! Yeah, right! I love being submissive sexually and being in charge in all other matters...for my well being, this balance is necessary. But I'm not bossy! Compromise is ideal in any decision making process, that I do understand and very much prefer, but I will take charge and make sure that compromise is in order...or else! :-[
Ms. Lilly i understand where you are coming from as i have trained and acted as a Dom before but much prefer to be the submissive in the bedroom. However, the difference in my life is more then half the people who meet me figure out that i am submissive, but they assume i am submissive in every aspect of my life and i am not.

i run my own business and have helped several other people set up businesses. Plus, i am a care taker for my mother and raising my 16 yr old who is very dominating to everyone. i also do not submit to just anyone, but i don't dominate everyone either. Normally it is just a case of sizing the person up and seeing how their energy matches with me. But, no matter what i tend to lean very HARD towards being submissive in the bedroom.

Peace and Happiness,

Sweetsboi