As much as I hate to admit it , I've got to go with what Oz said. It's hard to think clearly in that first rush of wonderful, heady, overwhelming emotion. It tends to subdue intellect and even that thing we call "instinct". I, too, have gone with the rush of emotion in the past, and I've got to say, it feels great! The only difference between then and now is that I've got enough sense of self-preservation to be cautious at the same time and to listen to my gut, not just my heart and hormones. I define my instincts as God talking to me. He'll tell me what to do when I can't think clearly, I just need to listen. And I don't always, but lately I've been very good about listening, because it always works out the way it's supposed to when I do, even though it may not be what I really want at the time.

Again, best wishes to you and have a great time!
jeanne