Quote Originally Posted by her_Joe
I'm not sure why people are giving this poster credibility. BDSM is open to a wide range of tastes and intellects, but that does not mean that we do not have basic requirements that distinguish dominants from bullies and submission from weakness. I don't want to dignify assaults that come from simple-minded arrogance.

Submissive Wife's question was appropriate and I can recommend two sites where I found a lot of help in finding interesting "jewelry" and information on contracts -- Roxanna at "TieMeUp" has lovely things and good service; "SubmissiveLoving" has some well thought out ideas on contracts. (Not better than what has been recommended, just another perspective.)

her_Joe
her_Joe, thank you for your post. You are right too. Why should anyone be posting because of Master514's asinine statements? Let's move on to what this thread was posted for: Collarings! If anyone else has real input and suggestions I would be happy to convey them to my Master.

submissivewife