Quote Originally Posted by Warbaby1943 View Post
I think she is submitting and by setting terms she knows her limits ahead of time. Of course over time these "terms" or limits may change so they should always remain negotiable.
Yeah, that's pretty much what I was going to say. When we started out, my Master and I had some very strict limits about what we were and weren't going to do, and since then they have relaxed somewhat. But it's only fair and honest to let your partner know what is and isn't "on the table."