Hi Submissivewife,

As you search for collaring ceremonies and plan to the future, I wish you the best. The ceremony itself can be as simple or elaborate as you desire. Alone or with a group of friends watching, it's whatever you and your man want it to be.

You might find this link usefull:
http://www.collarchat.com/merging_we..._162840/tm.htm

I recently collared my pet, Nathaniel. We created vows that are simple and work for both of us. We may change them as we see fit. Here is what we are using for now.

Ruby's vows to Nathaniel,

"Nathaniel, my sweet angel, son of God and man, I, Ruby, daughter of the Goddess and Eve, lifemate and pet to T, offer myself to you with my faults and my strengths to be your champion, miss, friend and lover. I will help you when you need help and will turn to you when I need help. I have the right to protect you, punish you and make decisions for you that relate to this relationship. I agree not to harm or damage you and that you will offer me the same trust and protection. Your moral code will be honored by me and I will seek to fulfill your desires with grace, dignity and a control of myself."

Nathaniel's vows:

"Miss Ruby, daughter of the Goddess and Eve, I, Nathaniel, son of God and man, willingly give myself to you to be your champion, devoted servant, friend and lover. I am a person and not an object. I offer myself to you with my faults and my strengths. I will help you when you need help and will turn to you when I need help. As my chosen Miss you have the right to protect me, punish me and make decisions for me that relate to this relationship. I agree not to harm or damage you and that you will offer me the same trust and protection. Your moral code will be honored by me and I will seek to please you in all things with grace, beauty and a control of myself.”

We decided to skip any formal contract and either of us is free to end the relationship at any time, for any reason.

The decision to collar Nat didn't come lightly, especially because of my marriage to T. There was no elaborate ceremony, just two people exchanging vows and celebrating.

If someday, Nat would allow me to collar him in public, with a group of our friends watching, I would be thrilled.
However, maintaining his secret identity is a hard limit that I respect and admire.

To your success,

Ruby