Submissive Terms?

[Sir_Russell]

I would like to expound on WB comment.

Not only should we revisit limits often but we should revisit negotiation and our contract often. If you have reached the stage where a long term contract has been agreed to it doesn't meant that you can't redo this contract to take into effect any new issue not properly covered.

To gagged louise I have set house rules and a set of tenants to guide her by in my absense or sickness. She agrees to and signs off on all of them during contracting.

his blizzard I don't want to upset you if you are having a good life living by Gor then it is great for you and I am happy for you. I myself would not be interested due to friends that have tried to live this life style and have been hurt, harmed by it. But that is what makes the world go round and I think it says more about your relationship with your Master then it does about Gor.

[TomOfSweden]

I would like to expound on WB comment.

Not only should we revisit limits often but we should revisit negotiation and our contract often. If you have reached the stage where a long term contract has been agreed to it doesn't meant that you can't redo this contract to take into effect any new issue not properly covered.

To gagged louise I have set house rules and a set of tenants to guide her by in my absense or sickness. She agrees to and signs off on all of them during contracting.

his blizzard I don't want to upset you if you are having a good life living by Gor then it is great for you and I am happy for you. I myself would not be interested due to friends that have tried to live this life style and have been hurt, harmed by it. But that is what makes the world go round and I think it says more about your relationship with your Master then it does about Gor.

I think a Gorean lifestyle has limits to. It has to have. Just because a couple is very good at communicating so they don't need limits written on a piece of paper doesn't mean the Master can do what he wants. My slave often says that I can do what I want with her, but I know my slave can't do all I want. So we have natural and tacit limits.

And a very hard limit is love. In all relationships we always wish to maximise the well being for our significant other. Sadist, Master or slave. This always sets a very hard floor to what the Master can do. Right?

[His_blizzard]

his blizzard I don't want to upset you if you are having a good life living by Gor then it is great for you and I am happy for you. I myself would not be interested due to friends that have tried to live this life style and have been hurt, harmed by it. But that is what makes the world go round and I think it says more about your relationship with your Master then it does about Gor.

I think a Gorean lifestyle has limits too

I wrote the following in a PM to someone so as not to hijack this thread any further, but now I feel the need to add it to this thread to explain my "Gorean" union with my Master:

Master and I consider ourselves Gorean in many ways, but like any other school of D/s we make it fit our beliefs and our life outside of the D/s community. Although I did enjoy all of the books, Master believes that after the first 5, Norman gave in to his publishers and his writings were weaker. We take many of the principals and ideas from those books and apply them to us as Master sees fit and what I am comfortable with. For example, I am sure you have heard me say that Master no longer desires a slave, and I do not wish to be one, so I am his kajira-missive. I wanted a brand but Master thinks that they are unsafe and can be unsightly so I will be getting a version of a brand; a tattoo of his choosing. He respects the fact that I don't do ink that shows except in a bathing suit so those terms were accepted. We have limits and a safe word, but his word is final and I agree to that. He is a kind Master, but in the Gorean tradition if I disobey or if I am disrespectful, punishment is swift and harsh. This does not mean it is always physical either. More often than not it is in the form of grueling research writing assignments with bibliographies. Ewww!
I won't take up anymore of your time with this. I just get so upset because Gor can be so grossly misunderstood. Just like many religions, werein each one has many different groups that range from liberal to fanatical conservatives, so are us Goreans. Sigh... It is like living in New Jersey. I know my state is beautiful and I am lucky to live here, but I have given up trying to defend it to those that know nothing about it except what the late night comedians say to make fun of it, and they take that to heart.
Gor and NewJersey: If you have to ask you wouldn't understand. LOL!
I hope this helps explain a bit better where I am coming from in the Gorean community. I know Gor is not a "real" planet, but I sure would love to ride a Tarn. "Peace" ~blizz~