I only became a member here yesterday but wanted to say hello to everyone (do not want you people thinking I am rude )
It looks a great site, although I haven't seen a lot of it yet as I have been busy reading the fantasy forum lol
I don't want to make myself highly unpopular, but I read something that someone called ManWhore posted ... to quote his words 'Why are so many BDSM girls fat and ugly??' and I read ALL the replies ... and I know most wanted the post to die a death (which was I didn't reply) but introductions are never easy, and I will use his quote to assist with my intro
I worked for a while as a receptionist at a massage parlour. All the girls were between size 8 and size 14. Many times when I answered the phones, I was asked if there were any 'larger women'. This was when I decided to become a professional dominatrix! I am happily married so the sex wasn't appealing (Ok, I lie the sex sounded great but hubby wasn't happy hehehe)
I went to www.seriousmistress.com to find someone I could learn from. This site has an extensive list of domme's all over the world - usually with their pictures - and the largest lady I found was a size 16. I am a size 20/22 and I remember thinking 'maybe I am too big to do this' .... How wrong I was!!
(Just for the record - I believe everyone is beautiful - barring my ex husband who is the biggest tosser on the face of this earth )

I look forward to getting to know you - and to getting round to reading more posts

Raven xx