Welcome sasha, nice to have you onboard. Just as on any message board, you can pick and read what you like, and leave aside what holds no interest for you. In your exploration of BDSM, nobody can ever dictate how you are ‘supposed to feel.’ You can find out what appeals to you personally by looking around and trying out and listening inside yourself. When there is something you’d like to contribute here, please post. If you post questions, in reply you’ll probably get all sorts of varying viewpoints. A message board where all contributors speak in uniform unison – that would be something to be truly scared of!

Welcome MistressRaven, enjoy the forum. Please go ahead and share whenever you feel like it: your experiences, skills and opinions, your open questions, fantasies and wishes...
Yeah, as in other places, occasionally here you’ll see the ‘post random blah’ variety of text whose sole purpose is attention-seeking. Fortunately, there are plentiful of contributions here written with genuine interest in the subject matter.

Please jump in at your leisure and explore.