Well, I know that my daughter is a long ways from it, but when she is old enough to understand certain things, I will try my hardest to gaurd her from bad choices. I don't plan on restricting her against sex. Now don't get me wrong, I am not going to give her free licence tosleep with evey guy that can get it up, but I want her to know that if she really feels the need to have sex (granted she is about the afore mentioned age) I will help her stay safe wether it be with condoms or birth control.

Granted, yes we have to gauge each child on an individual basis.

As for underage dominants, well yeah I am sure we all played those little games but none of us took a paddle or flogger or cane to their 10 year old play mate. They never hung them from the cealing or what not. It was playing and was harmless fun.

However, I do agree with you about the wanna-bes who play that are dangerous. I will make no arguement there. Unfortunately, they are facts of life and the one that give us a bad name.

It's truly hard to explain how I feel about this. I tried my best. If it still leave you with questions, feel free to ask.