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[Bald_J_and_F]

...Bald J_and_F, when you state,

The only other thing we ever critisized was the false usage of the term "rape". This was a mere linguistic issue; there just is no such thing as "consensual rape", as some seem to think. As soon as it is consensual it no longer is rape, by the mere definition of the word. Look up the word in a dictionary if you don't believe us.

Rape is unwilling, involuntary, and executed by some kind of force, corersion, power, or threat of harm. Otherwise it is consensual. Logically, this puts people who role-play rape in a gray area. They are enjoying "rape fantasy," and at the same time, they aren't.

In the US we have something called "professional wrestling," where two steroid-bulked men (usually) throw each other around, jump on each other, hit and grapple and do things like. It has a big fan base, but the funny thing is, it is scripted! They rehearse their "wrestling match," and the winner is pre-determined.

That's the way I feel about rape role-play: if it's scripted, the "victim" is willing, and there are escape words for when it gets too rough....then it isn't rape.

Now we live in a free society, and if this pleases people, then fine, but to me it rings hollow. Therefore, I stay put with rape-fantasy-fiction, and look (in vain) for rape images and videos that look realistic.

Regarding Nazi settings, I think we just have a cultural impasse. You are understandably sensitive. But here in the US, it is an old and well-used setting and plot device for rape, bondage, sadism, and other perverted themes.

So, are we in an understanding?

BTW, are you native English speakers? Your language is excellent!

One of us (Jean) is a native speaker (she lived in the USA for the first 24 years of her life). Friede is German, but her English is excellent too. She was in England for 4 weeks when she was a little kid, and little kids learn languages extremely fast; also she worked as a translator for several years. She speaks English without any accent (though she can put on some just for fun).
By the way: We know about professional wrestling, of course; many WWF matches are shown on various German tv-channels.