Different strokes for different folks. I (Friede) was raped too, and I can tell you I did NOT enjoy it; on the contrary, it is the reason why I became a lesbian. It took me half a year to be able to be alone in a room with a man without starting to scream, and sex with a man is a DEFINITE no for me now (and, to be honest, I don't miss it at all).Originally Posted by prey4me