I haven't posted in a "long" time. So, "hi". :waves:

I, too, struggle with my own faith and my interests in the BDSM realm. This is something in which took a few years to personally sort through (on my end).

I think aspects of BDSM can be intergrated into your own marriage for pleasure. If you are persuing aspects of this lifestyle between you and your wife, I do not think those times of play will have a negative affect on your personal relationship with God.

However (IMO), you cannot offer to train/own another submissive other then your wife. Yes, you can participate in active forums (like this one) but...need to be careful of your actions.

As long as what you read or see online does not persuay you to break your vows to thy Lord and marriage, I do not see harm.

I'm still struggling to get both my faith and my interests in BDSM in order, but this is what I've come to thusfar. Sowwie for beating a dead topic on its head.