Quote Originally Posted by rach View Post
This is a question for subs and doms and is a multi part question....yeah i know greedy! LOL

Have any of you subs cried during online play?

Have any of you Doms had a sub cry during an online play? Not from physical pain or obvious emotional upset.

And if you have how did subs feel afterwards? Did you feel you had been used wrongly or did it feel appropriate given the scene/play?
How did Doms feel if it's happened to them? Did you feel you had pushed too hard or did you feel it was postive?
And finally: What are Dom/sub feelings on it happening? Is it something to avoid or is it ok if acceptable aftercare is given and you both are reassured by the end ?
This would all depend on what I was trying to do and why she was crying. I actually get a bit turned on by tears, and if the sub knows this in advance, and I am striving for this response, I will push harder and enjoy it, then deal with it in aftercare.

On the other hand, if this is an unexpected thing and is not something I am working for, I will usually stop and check on the reason for the tears, and then proceed form there. this is not a clear response because the question actually evokes an mutifaceted answer that comes down to, it depends.