Slave Master contract. Just incase you were curious or wanted to see one.

[Ruby]

fwss,

It's fantastic that you've found a partner you can trust with your life and that you've got a contract that works for the two of you. Cause that's what contracts are all about, what works for the two of you, not anyone else.

I agree that extreme BDSM relationships can look scary. So can mild ones from those not living them. Heck, I've seen some vanilla relationships that were down right terrifying.

Wacked out weirdo's with no common sense?
I'm not sure where that's coming from.
In this thread we were discussing contracts and personal preferences about them. We weren't slamming people's choices, name calling or suggesting that people who are involved in BDSM relationships whether extreme or mild are in anyway less intelligent than folks who have vanilla relationships.

It is not for me to judge what's in the heart of another.
I can judge someone's actions and decide if they hurt me or not. I can decide if I want them in my life or not. I can decide if I want to sign a contract or not. So can you. It about personal choices and helping educate each other on the choices that we've made.

If you ever feel like sharing more of your relationship, what works, what doesn't, why you chose a contract, what you like or don't like about it, please do. If you want to focus on your relationship with your Mistress, like an ongoing documentary, I encourage you to start your own thread in the My BDSM Life section of the forums and go for it.

You've brought up some very valuable points in your posts and there's always room for actual discussion and disagreement. If we get stuck, we can always agree to disagree.

So...hint, hint, hint...
What do you like about having a contract?
How did you and your mistress go about selecting one?
Care to share a copy with the forum members?

To your success,

Ruby