Quote Originally Posted by new_explorer View Post
Thank you zasvig for posting this, I find myself in a similar situation, the difference is the relationship itself is quite new. Although neither of us has any real practical experience we have both expressed an interest in this, but I think myself as the sub, I tend to feel he should be the one moving things along...patience, patience, patience...I will be drilling that into my head, thanks to everyone who replied as well.
read through the stories in the library and show your Dom which stories turns you on and perhaps both of you take that hard limit questionnere that SirRussel posted here. That is a way for both of you to know what the other likes and then talk alot about it.
Openness and honesty is definitely key factors here and patience.