Quote Originally Posted by Flaming-Redhead View Post
It's just sad that someone would rather put something down as a NO instead of a MAYBE simply due to embarressment.
I don't usually write posts directly to specific people, but I particularly wanted what I'm about to say be public. Red, your post was very helpful to me. I'll be honest - at first I was "What?!" But, I was also in a spot that was very uncomfortable to me - staring at a limits questionaire that was actually going to be used by someone. And I was struggling with filling it out honestly. Your post made me rethink the NOs, each one on an individual basis, and ask myself: "Why is this a NO? Is there any circumstance under which I could imagine this not being a NO?" After that re-examination of my long, long list of NOs, it became a long, long list of soft limits, with some NOs sprinkled in. You pushed me to get honest, with myself and Him, and I thank you for that Red.

Still learning about myself, and Red helped,
jeanne