Study and D/s

[Rhabbi]

Focus on your studies, your Mistress should understand this. Get her to assign tasks based on your test schedule, and awards and punishments based on your grades. this will get you both involved in where you are going, and add some incentive for you to do well.

[cariad]

Focus on your studies, your Mistress should understand this. Get her to assign tasks based on your test schedule, and awards and punishments based on your grades. this will get you both involved in where you are going, and add some incentive for you to do well.

I strongly disagree with the idea of being punished for a poor grade.

If white rabbit is as dedicated to the task as he sounds as if he is, then a poor grade will be devastating enough. I know how I would feel in such a situation, and if the one person to whom I would be looking to to support me at such a time then punished me I would feel broken and betrayed in the trust that I have given to him to protect me. I cannot imagine him ever being so uncaring, but if he was, then it would take a lot of work on both our parts to re-establish that trust.

Now that does not mean that after he had let me vent and cry or whatever I needed to do, he would not lovingly take me over his knee to help me draw a line under the matter. But that would be a therapeutic spanking, not a punishment.

cariad