sipgirl it is our pleasure to have you here and I sincerely mean that. I am saddened to hear of your loss. I can't even imagine any tragedy that could possibly be worse. What is heartening is that you two stayed together through it all. Some are not so lucky when a tragedy like that hits.
Any time or anything you may want to say will be most gratefully accepted here. I think I can assure you of that.
Great having you as part of our community.