I think that you both have the right idea. Plus a Happy Bedroom makes for a Happy work place. If you feel good - fullfilled - you preform better at work. Also if you can see the lines of control - manipulation and power you can fit in and find your roll better - thus keeping the main points of your job the main point. I am fond of saying "Keep the main thing the main thing"

Being a sensual dominate - I treat those that work for me with the same loving care as I would my submissive. meaning that the behaviours that I require from them are rewarded, but when they are out of line, that they are instructed what is wrong and coached through to perform to their best ability.

John


(by the way - if anyone is in Louisville KY - I am looking for a new Production assistant!)