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Quote Originally Posted by redEva
OK! Yeah, I know – it is not pure BDSM, but still, one of the never ending mysteries ( for me at least ). Not that anyone complained so far (not that I would admit even if they had ) but… apart from the all around fantasy of deep throating (and that one too – if someone could enlighten me – how exactly do you manage to do it for extended period of time without evacuating last few meals?! ) and some other imaginary always-in-the-story described actions - what is in your experience really really cool, and details please – maybe we can learn something.

And… just by-the-way did you ever tried blowing strong raspberries on His balls? :[
Got a chance to read all the other posts first. My two cents on this topic is that deep throat is not that necessary. Hitting the places where the nerve endings reside has the greatest affect.

For deep throating: The sub who swallowed swords has the right idea. Practice practice practice. I would recommend starting with a banana. It has the right shape and is also stiff. Should it go into places where is should not be (causes a gag response), it will not be so stiff and hard that it will cause damage.

The gag reflex is a safe guard to protect you from having foreign substances enter the lungs. Nothing goes in if everything is going out. The banana can be slowly pushed down the throat yet removed when the gag response start or if you suddenly find a need to breathe :yuck: With practice the throat can become accustomed to having something like a banana or other similar item placed in the immediate area.

As a male, I like the idea of having a sub paying such close attenting to that area. The Crown has the most nerve ending and thus can give the greatest response. The perineum is another excellent place to stroke. Consider that this area is used by most animals to induce responses, mostly research from mothers cleaning their newborn. Whether it goes all the way down or not does not increase my responses. Whether the sub is paying attention and playing appropriately gains a greater positive response. Best BJ is one that comes from both partners wanting and enjoying.