Quote Originally Posted by Kelli
I found using my mouth and hand works the best, since I can't deep throat either... yet...

I start by just using my mouth, taking of much of him in as I can, while my hand fondles his balls and perinium. Then I start to slide my hand over his cock, my hand in the shape of an "O." When my hand slides down, I slip my mouth over the head and give it a quick swirl, then bring my hand back over the top. As I bring my hand up, I twist it, which is what he says drives him wild. With my free hand, I caress his anus (he has yet to let my finger in, even though we both think he would like it, he's a little homophobic), so I just lightly caress the opening, which drives him crazy as well. I keep pumping, gradually increasing, and as he cums, I pump my hand as hard as I can over his shaft.
Kelli, everything you have described fits in with the very best I have experienced. Your partner is a very lucky man!

There is one suggestion I can make that is not in your description, although you might be doing it anyway! One very sensitive area is the groove on either side between the scrotum and the anus. With your fingers in a vee, reach underneath from behind, and run your parted fingers in very lightly on both sides of the groove simultaneously. Talk about going from hard to solid rock! The feel of a woman's fingers doing that is indescribable, and combined with the rest of what you are doing with your mouth, I'm sure it will be fantastic.

There's one general comment I would make to all of you women who want to make a big impression on us men. Perhaps the most common mistake a woman makes is to presume that ejaculation = male orgasm. Not so. As I'm sure you all know, you can cause a man to ejaculate very quickly with all kinds of techniques, but there is very little, if any pleasure involved. In fact, there are two different processes going on and they happen at very different speeds. If you get it wrong, the ejaculation occurs long before he is anywhere near a real orgasm.

As many people have said in here many times, the most erogenous zone is the mind. I would add that the second most erogenous zone a man has is a woman, the third is anywhere except where you think it is, and the fourth is exactly where you think it is. For a man to achieve maximum pleasure there needs to be a slow buildup, so his mind becomes focused on all those visual, tactile and other erotic sensations. During this buildup remember the order of those erogenous zones. He needs to be in the mood, then he needs to be able to touch and feel you, then he needs to feel your touch, arousing his whole body, focusing his mind so that he is fully aroused and ready and desperately wanting you to touch him in those very obvious places. Use techniques like those described by Kelli but take your time, let him stay hard for a while while he feels the intense sensations that he can only enjoy in that state of arousal, and then, when you sense that he is ready, tip him over the edge and you will get an ejaculation that fully justifies being described as a male orgasm. Those special sensations of pleasure come from all parts of the genitalia, especially the most sensitive areas like around and beneath the scrotum.

Some men may like it when you close your thumb and forefinger around his ball sack and pull his balls gently away from the body while you do all those wonderful things with your mouth.