Experiences Finding Someone Online

[alura]

That is how I met my danny, too, OS! And as you know...it's now only 19 days away! (grin)
What do you mean, Australia was cut off? When? From MSN? Do tell? I haven't heard from him in a couple days. I chalked it up to him being swamped since the season ends tomorrow at his job....but maybe there's another reason?

hello OS Sir, i will give you a quick background. i was discovering my self as a sub, mostly through reading, thinking oh yes i could live with that! when i discovered the joys of msn chat. for someone living in a rather small country city, that was amazing! i could stay at home look after the kids and talk to people who knew what i was feeling, talking about, going through. it was the best thing for me. i met a lot of good people there. including my Master. but then they cut australia off and left us out in the cold. so, anway, i can tell you, that as far as i know, at least three couples came about from meeting in the room i used to call home. i know of three people who moved countries to be with new partners. and i know of one sub who has since married her new Master, whom she met in that room. i have never had the joy of feeling my Masters hand as yet, but our relationship is very real, and i am working towards being with Him for a visit next year.
i have also been lucky enough to correspond with some people in the lifestyle who live in the same state as me, which is great! i find online to be a safe place to get to know people. but then again, i know of people who have had bad experiences too. i think because i am fairly isolated geographically, i am about as safe as you can be. also, i have of course observed obvious safety meaures. all i can say Sir, is if you are meant to meet, then you will, doesnt matter where it is.
and you can have equally bad experiences with people you meet in the pub, it is not just the domain of the internet to meet players and cheats.
good luck with hunting Sir if that is what you wish.
J's blu

[J's blu]

hi alura, when i said no msn i meant chat rooms. we can still use messenger. just cant access any chat rooms. UNLESS, you know someone in the states who has payed and is willing to give you one of their passport thingys. that is what i meant. i was so lucky to have just found it before it dissappeared. the friends i met there i have been able to keep in touch with via IM. and of course my Master now see in OZ you only have 18 days to go you deserve it girl.

[Sam'sJasmine]

I am a female sub. I met my Master through an ad placed on a BDSM web site. We started out with email, and I must say he was the one that asked the most questions before we started anything, and I liked that. I was an over the road truck driver at the time, so after about 2 months we went to phone contact when my truck broke down and I was in a motel for a couple of days. A while later I got a load into his area, and we decided to meet in real life. That was in 2000, and we now have been married for a year. The first year we had bi-weekly email contact and met in person 3 times. Neither one of us were looking for a lifetime commitment. But things just happened, I guess you could say life has its way of changing your plans. I am very happy, I now get to have the type of sex I like, I have a husband I love with all my heart, and a Master, who when real life doesn’t interfere, can be cruel and mean. (Shivers deliciously).

I think the main reason I continued on and met him in person was he always put my safety first. In all his email instructions there was information on how to do things safely, he always asked questions into how my lifestyle both at home and on the road would affect what he told me to do. He always found ways to push me out of my comfort zone, but never was I asked to go into a situation that would put me in jeopardy.

I know I was a good source of porn, a delightful distraction knowing some woman was doing his bidding, but I always knew he also was concerned that our contact was S/S/C. Since this was my first contact with any one via Internet, and my first BDSM relationship, I was pretty unsure of what my limits were. He was very good at keeping things at a slow steady, yet exciting pace.

My real life always took priority and still does, yet I have plenty of time to fill with wonderful distraction of my Master’s desires.

And we continue on............