to the Library SidheWolf. I would be glad to answer your questions.
1) How important do you feel honesty is in BDSM relationships?
Absolutlely nececassary. Without honesty, you can have no trust.
2) How important do you feel trust is in BDSM relationships?
Again indespensible, without trust there can be no relationship. It is even kmore crucila to trust in a BDSM realtionship than a vanilla one. You are literally either putting your life in another's hands, or taking their's into yours. How can you do that without trust.
3) What constitues cheating in a BDSM relationship?
This is a bit harder, but essentially comes down to anything outside the parameters of the relationship as agreed to by both parties.