newby,

You've almost described what might be considered a 24/7 master/slave relationship by some.

But there is plenty of room for a 24/7 dominant/submissive relationship that allows the sub plenty of room for being self actualized in many things.

No driver's license? How could you serve me properly.
Can't decide on your own clothes, style of hair? How could you surprise me with sexy lingerie, new insertables. How could you entertain me.

The list goes on and on.