What do you find humiliating?

[blythe spirit]

Ummmm - the difference between embarassment and humiliation is this - I can tell you that humiliation arouses me, but I'm too embarrassed to tell you what type of humiliation arouses me. *giggles

[jeanne]

Okay my two cents worth. I have a greeting that I love and insist upon in private, it goes this way. She kneels with knees apart then goes down to put her bottom on her calves. Then she leans forward while slowly placing her arms out and back like a bird or seraphin. When her face makes contact and her nipples are touching the floor she says words like welcome Master your slave awaits your desire. Then she is to raise back to a kneeling position then to an arched back with mouth open waiting for me to decide if I will let her taste me.

To some this is humilation but most find that once they get past that their sub is in full control.

I can't find anything humiliating about that. Incredibly arousing, yes. A way to enter the correct submissive mindset, yes. Humiliating? Oh hell no.

Ummmm - the difference between embarassment and humiliation is this - I can tell you that humiliation arouses me, but I'm too embarrassed to tell you what type of humiliation arouses me. *giggles

That's perfect!!!

[cadence]

Ummmm - the difference between embarassment and humiliation is this - I can tell you that humiliation arouses me, but I'm too embarrassed to tell you what type of humiliation arouses me. *giggles

I find now that the small things that used to be humiliating are now a common need for me.

The more I dwelve into humiliation, the more I have to push a little further to experience it.

I may be hijacking just a bit, but I have been thinking about this since my last experience and this statement made me think about it even more.

While I know that humiliation is something that will be embarassing and uncomfortable; when does it really cross the line, into dangerous territory?

I had been tasked recently and had pushed my boundries of humiliation.
I enjoyed doing it, and was aroused by the whole thing, I just couldn't get my mind to go into a place that was comfortable after the fact.
It is not that I feel badly, it is the fact that I was humiliated, I enjoyed it, but I refuse to now acknowledge that I enjoyed it. I can't seem to convince my brain that I enjoyed it.

Did I cross a line? Or is it just something that happens every so often.

I'll give an example to maybe clarify as to what I am saying.

I love face spitting, do it to me and my first reaction is what the hell just happened?, then I become more excited that it just did happen, after the fact, I think why did I just get excited over what happened, it was wrong and degrading. I feel bad for doing something so taboo, but I know I'll want it again.