The most humiliating thing for me.... or maybe embarassing... I dunno... either way.. something that would probably arouse the Dom but leave me feeling a little.. "open" (in an emotional sense)

is pretty basic. When in the chat and I have to ask publically to speak with a Dom privately.. OMG..

It embarasses me to no end b/c its like.. everyone then knows that I am privately talking to someone and they may make assumptions about what is happening and such...

It does turn me on a little bit.... but it totally makes me blush.. I am sitting here typing it and my ears are literally burning....