Abrasion: yes 3
Age play: no 0
Anal sex: yes 5 nothing like rough anal sex
Anal plugs (small): yes 5
Anal plugs (large):yes 5
Anal plug (public, under clothes): hmmm yes 3
Animal roles:no 0
Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders):no 0
Asphyxiation:yes 5
Auctioned for charity:no 0
Bathroom use control:no 2
Bestiality:no hard limit
Beating (soft):yes 5
Beating (hard):yes 5
Blindfolds:yes 3
Being serviced (sexual):yes 5
Being bitten:yes 5
Breast/chest bondage: no 3
Breath control:yes 4
Branding:no 4
Boot worship:no 0
Bondage (light): yes 3
Bondage (heavy):yes 3
Bondage (multi-day):no 1
Bondage (public, under clothing):no 2
Breast whipping:yes 4
Brown showers (scat):no hardlimit
Cages (locked inside of):no 0
Caning:yes 5
Catheterization:no 0
Cells/Closets (locked inside of):no 1
Chastity belts:no 2
Chauffeuring: yes 1
Choking:yes 5
Clothespins:yes 3
Cock worship: yes 3
Collars (worn in private):yes 3
Collars (worn in public):yes 4
Competitions (with other Subs):no 3
Corsets (wearing):yes 5
Cuffs:yes 3
Cuffs (metal):yes 3
Cutting:no 4
Dilation:no
Double penetration:no depends on if toy and cock counts if that way 4
Electricity:yes 4
Enemas:yes 3
Enforced chastity:yes 3
Examinations (physical):no 0
Exercise (forced/required):no 3
Exhibitionism (friends):no 1
Exhibitionism (strangers):no 1
Eye contact restrictions:yes 2
Face slapping:yes 5
Fantasy abandonment:no 0
Fantasy rape:yes 5
Fantasy gang-rape:no 0
Fisting (anal):no 0
Fisting (vaginal):no 0
Following orders:yes 4
Foot worship:no 0
Forced dressing:no 1
Forced homosexuality:hmmm no but 4 on her of course
Forced masturbation:yes 5
Forced nudity (private):yes 4
Forced nudity (around others):no 2
Forced servitude:yes 4
Full head hoods:no 0
Gags (cloth):no 3
Gags (rubber):no 3
Gags (tape):no 3
Gates of Hell (male) N/A
Genital sex:yes 5
Given away to another Dom (temp):no 0
Given away to another Dom (perm):no 0
Golden showers:yes 1
Hairbrush spankings:no 3
Hair pulling:yes 5
Hand jobs (giving):yes 4 on her of course
Hand jobs (receiving):yes 2
Harems (serving w/other subs):no 0
Harnessing (leather):no 2
Harnessing (rope):no 2
Having food chosen for you:no 0
Having clothing chosen for you:no 0
Head (giving fellatio):na
Head (receiving fellatio)for males only yes 5
High heel worship:no 0
Homage with tongue (non-sexual):yes 3
Hot oils (on genitals):yes 3
Hot waxing:yes 4
Housework (doing):no 0
Human puppy dog:no 0
Humiliation (private):yes 5
Humiliation (public):yes 5
Hypnotism:no 0
Ice cubes:yes 4
Infantilism:no 0
Initiation rites:yes 2
Injections:no 0
Intricate (Japanese) rope bondage:no 0
Interrogations:yes 3
Kidnapping:no 3
Kneeling:yes 3
Leather clothing:no 3
restraints:yes 3
Lectures for misbehavior:yes 4
Licking (non-sexual):no 2
Manacles & Irons:no 2
Manicures (giving):no 0
Massage (giving):yes 3
Massage (receiving):yes 3
Medical scenes:no 0
Modeling for erotic photos:no 0
Mouth bits:yes 3
Mummification:no 0
Nipple clamps:yes 4
Nipple weights:yes 3
Oral/anal play (rimming):no 1
Over-the-knee spanking:yes 4
Orgasm denial:yes 5
Orgasm control:yes 5
Outdoor scenes:no 3
Outdoor sex:no 3
Phone sex (serving Dom):na
Phone sex (serving Dom's friends):no 0
Piercing (temporary, play-pierce):no 3
Piercing (permanent):no 3
Prison scenes NO 3
Pony slave:no 0
Public exposure:no 0
Pussy/cock whipping:yes 4
Pussy worship:no 2
Riding crops:yes 4
Riding the "horse" (crotch tort.):no 0
Rituals:yes 3
Religious scenes:no 0
Restrictive rules on behavior:yes 3
Rubber/latex clothing:no 1
Rope body harness:no 0
Saran wrapping:no 0
Scratching – getting:yes 4
Scratching – giving:yes 5
Sensory deprivation:no 0
Serving:no o
Serving as art:no 0
Serving as ashtray:no 0
Serving as furniture:no 0
Serving as a maid:no 0
Serving as toilet:no 0
Serving as waitress/waiter:no 0
Serving orally (sexual):yes 3
Serving other Doms (supervised):no 0
Serving other Doms (unsupervised):no 0
Sexual deprivation (short term):yes 3
Sexual deprivation (long term):no 0
Shaving (body hair):yes 4
Shaving (head hair):no 0
Sleep deprivation:no 0
Sleepsacks:no 0
Slutty clothing (private):yes 4
Slutty clothing (public):yes 3
Spanking:yes 5
Spandex clyesothing:no 0
Speech restrictions (when, what):yes 3
Speculums (Anal):no 0
Speculums (vaginal)no 0:
Spreader bars:no 2
Standing in corner:no 0
Stocks (adjustable):no 2
Straight jackets:no 0
Strap-on-dildos (sucking on):no 0
Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by):no 0
Strap-on-dildos (wearing):no 0
Strapping (full body beating):yes 3
Suspension (upright);no 0
Suspension (inverted):no 0
Suspension (horizontal):no 0
Supplying new partners for Dom:na
Swallowing semen:her swallowing my load of course 5
Swallowing urine:no 0
Swapping (with one other couple):no 0
Swinging (multiple couples):no 0
Tattooing:no 3
Teasing:yes 5
Tickling:yes 1
Triple penetration:no 0
Uniforms:no 0
Including others:no 3
Vaginal dildo:yes 4
Verbal humiliation:yes 4
Vibrator on genitals:yes 4
Voyeurism (watching others):yes 3
Voyeurism (your Dom w/others):na
Video (watching others):yes 3
Video (recordings of you):no 3
Water torture:no 0
Wearing symbolic jewelry:yes 3
Whipping YES 5
Wooden paddles:yes 5
Wrestling:no 2