Advice Would Be Very Appreciated

[Aesop]

The only thing I can suggest is stop playing until you two manage to really understand each other. Set hard limits and call the play off if they are pushed. You have to protect yourself, because it is so easy to get hurt and emotionally scared with things like this.

I agree. You two should sit down and have a long talk about exactly what you both want from the bdsm portion of your lives.

I've told Him time and time again how this makes me feel and He always says He didn't mean it, or He's sorry and won't do it again. Yet the very next day . . . there He is making me feel bad about myself all over again.

As Redeva says it's hard to give advice to someone when you don't know them, but what you're describing sounds more like the actions of a bully than a dominant to me. Good luck to you.