Quote Originally Posted by Devilkisses
... But I know this guy and I know, deep in my heart, that what He is doing is not intended to hurt me.The only thing I'm having a problem with is the way He makes light of the things I do for Him, which in my mind are all very special acts I would preform for NOBODY but Him. When He laughs it's like He just threw a very special gift right back in my face. I'm sort of wondering if that's His way of dealing with His feelings of unease about being Dominant (which He seems to have, but insists He loves it).
Defilkisses, there have been some very good points made in this thread; I hope you are able to sort this problem out. If he truly loves you then he really must not know how his actions hurt. Nobody would be intentionally mean to someone they love--and yet so often we do things that hurt without knowing. I hope that you can communicate your feelings to him as clearly as you have here. Good luck.