Quote Originally Posted by Devilkisses

I've told Him time and time again how this makes me feel and He always says He didn't mean it, or He's sorry and won't do it again. Yet the very next day . . . there He is making me feel bad about myself all over again.
Devilkisses,

This is the line that really got to me on so many levels.
Great advice and comments so far.

My two cents:

This has become a habit to him.
Habits are hard to break when they are pleasurable.
He must be getting something out of treating you this way, or he wouldn't do it.

However, if the next time he pulls that crap, you quietly, stand up, not say a word and just leave the room. That would be making a big statement.

If you continue doing so, or whatever you choose to do to let him know that he's crossed a line - a hard limit with you - then you are taking back control.

In many ways, his insecurity about his role, has become a test to see how far he can push you and what he can get away with.

You are submissive to him, because you choose to be.
If he can't be a responsible dom, then its time to end the play and reset your expectations.

To your success,

Ruby