Saying the "L" word...

[His_little one]

Euryleia -- you had some very valid points. I am still stressing about it and it's absolutely driving me crazy! I swear i'm telling him the next time I see him in person. I think your pointing out that sometimes it's not so much them holding out on us but them thinking it goes without saying is a very valid one and I never thought of it that way even though he (self) admittedly doesn't do well talking about his feelings.

Thanks everyone for your thoughts and stories. Naomi -- I think you're correct in that Dom's tend to be more stoic in their feelings which is why i think that it does indeed make a difference if it's a Ds relationship or a vanilla one.

[nia25]

After being together for two weeks I wound up high on morphine in the ER.
Me: I love you
Him: I love you too
(remember... high on morphine)
Me: No... seriously... I love you.
Him: Seriously... I love you too.
Me: I really, really love you.
Him: *laughs* I really, really love you too.

This went on for about thirty minutes until I passed out . Nothing like stating your true feelings in a traditional way! (Which we've never done... you should hear the way he proposed!)

Just tell him hun. I remember how awful it is to play the should I game... it's no fun. If he doesn't feel the same then it is better you find out now anyway.