I'm having the same damn problem, and I've never had problems before. *pout* I've always used IE. I haven't changed any of my settings. The only thing that has changed is the fucking password!!!! GRRRRR
Try what worked for me: I deleted all the BDSM LIbrary cookies, shut down the browser and then logged back in. It's been working fine since.
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