Quote Originally Posted by wingsofanangel View Post
I've always heard people have fetishes OR bdsm related desires b/c of abuse.
Is that true or just what "they" say? i havent been involved in the community long enough to know. Personally, i couldnt have had a more "normal" childhood...loving family, went to church, good grades, the whole bit...absolutely no abuse whatsoever. But i do like the kink!!