Consistancy

[Ruby]

My question, I guess, is how do you help/solve a lazy-thinking Dom? Who creates new orders on a whim, then forgets about them, or does not require/reinforce them after being obeyed once or twice?

Hi Kats,

How about writing down those rules as you receive them?

You can give him the rules and when you have those off moments, where you are in neither role, just planning and talking about how things are going, you can pull them out and ask if he really wants you to follow them or not.

I know it's hectic right now and short/long term memory loss is prevalent throughout the holidays and other times of busy lives. However, if this were to become a long term problem, I'd definitely point out to him that consistency is what you are seeking.

If this isn't personal, about your dom, but a question for anyone in general, I'd say the same thing. -- If the rule is important enough to make it, it's important enough to be written down and reviewed every now and then.

Ruby