I found this very interesting, and I can identify with somewriter's problem. I'm sure I'll encounter the same difficulties. It the same with trying to describe how women think and react. I have been taken to task a lot over that sort of thing ... just because I think a BJ is fantastic sex, it doesn't follow that girls do ... after all, they get jaw ache, gag and have icky stuff shot into their mouths and down their throats. But I didn't realise this ... at least, not then. So, like TheDeSade says, I solicit other opinions.

(I feel a fraud at this point: I've only just started writing - what do I know?)

To continue ...

What does it feel like in the mouth, then? I have to be told or I have to reveal my lack of knowledge in a document which will scream out my ignorance ever after.

It seems to me to be a good policy only to describe what you need to ... then in the revisions, gather up these descriptions and position them early on in the story, so as to meet Mad Lews's objections about changing images.

TYWD