Top o' the mornin' to ya'll! I am katmandu. I've been a sub for 2 years, exclusively with the same Dom. It's been a very rocky road, but we have both done research extensively, questioned many, more experienced people, along the way, and practiced what we've learned with others (well, He has, I have yet to) outside our primary relationship.
I hope I can help answer questions satisfactorily that anyone has!