Submissive/Slave Please introduce yourselves here

[phragmites]

Hello, I'm phragmites, pronouced frag-my-tees (it's a type of reed). I was in a Mastery/submission relationship in the past, and am now married to a wonderful man who is, however, not versed in BDSM. We're both learning together in some senses, as my training was incomplete due to the tragic loss of my first Master (to Lou Gherig's disease). Because of my rather atypical route into the scene I'm able to answer questions about the philsophy of submission, and likely to be looking for answers in the B/D and S/M categories.

[shdowrnnr]

Greetings everyone

I'm shdowrnnr aka shadowrunner. A sub stuck in a vanilla marriage. My hubby has tried to be a dom but just isn't dominating enough. He's trying though.

[mali]

Hey, I'm new here....

I'm mali, i've been a a sub for as long as I can remember really.... but only started practicing it a few years ago. I've had a Master in the past, and I now am very happily living with my Mistress
I'll answer all questions as best I can!

[Nikita]

I'm Nikita,

Horrors! I've been turned into an e slut. I switch, but some would say I'm assertive with a strong submissive streak. And, I will switch with only ONE special person.

Mostly, I'm and 80-20, which means I lean towards 80% sub, 20% domme.

Glad to have finally admitted what I've written about in stories.

Haven't you figured it out yet? (looks down and blushes deeply)

[Jim]

here is a silly question for you .. i would like my wife to get her nipples pierced ..
but she is reluctant to do so .. she is a very good sub in many ways .. and i would rather enjoy seeing her enhance her breasts with the piercing ..
do you have any thoughts of why she would be reluctant to do so ..
thanks ..

[Alex Bragi]

.. i would like my wife to get her nipples pierced ..
but she is reluctant to do so ...

... do you have any thoughts of why she would be reluctant to do so ..
thanks ..

Jim, a male friend of mine has his left nipple pierced. The reason both aren't done is that, in his own words, "It hurt so fucking much I decided one was enough." I agree with Maddie—pain isn't for everyone. Have you considered those fake ones?