Hey folks, Aesop here! I'm male and dominant and have a problem taking anything too seriously. Probably because of that I seem a lot sillier than most of the other dominants 'round here - but rest assured I have my tall, dark, and whip-happy side.

I've been involved with bdsm in some form or another for about a dozen years. I've married my submissive and we live with our three kids. I have a wide variety of bdsm interests and have developed a host of skills to keep my wife and I happy. Anyone who is a member of the BDSM Academy has seen me in my dominant role and knows I'm a stickler for details and kinda strict when it comes to having my commands followed. My interest right now is focused mainly on mentoring new dominants as I think that we as a community need people to show newbies how it's done. Not that I think my way is the best, but it's gotta be better than the, "On your knees, bitch."-in a chatroom no less - crowd. I also happen to be one of the moderators of the library forums so any questions about the forums, bdsm, or anything else will be answered post haste - or at least really, really fast.