Quote Originally Posted by Driveslikeagirl
So glad to see this topic brought up. If only men knew how much women wanted to learn how to give absolutely perfect blow jobs!

That damn gag reflex! They taught us in nursing school (for different purposes of course) to tell patients to breathe through their nose, but that doesn't completely make the gag reflex magically disappear...

I've read a lot online that men like gentle play with the balls during a blow job, but I have yet to meet one in person who would admit it, let alone give pointers.

And why do men so like women to swallow? Hey, I'm all for it if the man likes it. But my question is, are there some men out there who either don't care, or who are actually repulsed by a woman who swallows?

Preface: Everyone is different. I speak in generalitys for the masses but in specifics for me.

Why do we like women to swallow? I think the majority will agree that the most intense form of pleasure for a man is a well performed blow job. The climax is just that, the epitome of the intense feelings. Imagine that at the magic moment when you are feeling the best feelings possilbe they stop! Any interruption is magnified at that moment. A man's orgasam doesn't last that long in the first place. Even if it is substituted by a hand, or lips on the side of the shaft. Nothing can replace that engulfed feeling of a warm, wet, flexible, mouth that conforms to the exact surface of your penis. If the pressure is perfect (a little suction causes the sides of the mouth to come in contact with the shaft, extending the feeling over more of the lenght} as well, it is heaven! I for one do not care if the woman swallows. Just as long as she doesn't pull off or stop until I am completely expended. Spit, drool, swallow, gargle, while I enjoy the descent to the present, I don't care. I might not even notice. If the lady is talented enough to be doing the BJ handless and uses one hand to stimulate the balls while using a finger of the other hand to massage the prostrate, she is a keeper. I would make her my sub regardless of any less than perfect redeeming qualities.

Deep throating is a worthy goal ladies so keep trying. I am lucky/unlucky in that most women can deep throat me. Not right away, if they are not at least somewhat skilled, but with a minimal amount of effort. It is the one benefit of an "average" cock.

This may sound funny, but when I wanted to really learn how to eat pussy, I watched and studied lesbian porn flicks and later real lebians in action. I learned a lot. So, watch gay flicks and if you can observe them in action, go for it.

Return comments welcomed.
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