Hi. Im subtlenewbie, a 38 yr old female, (mostly het but not entirely) single mom and a (surprise!) nurse. Last spring I was just ending a dead end relationship, and met a wonderful Man who through three weeks of seeing each other every day, and months of being on the phone... moved to my town two months ago.

Funny thing, I was (mostly) vanille up until this spring. My MAN figured out in about 10 minutes that I was a submissive... and pretty sooon he had me convinced too. Im still learning a lot, its been a long distance relationship for most of it, plus his resettling into a new town has put a slow down on this side of our relationship, but things are progressing. Im just happy to have found this site and meeting cool new people.