i had emailed Madlews and we got to talking on yahoo. he said that i should join this forum to learn more about the lifestyle that i am so interested in. i am married to a vanilla who will never change. i visit the bdsm library but had no idea this forum existed until Madlews told me about it. he said it would be a great place for me to interact and learn more about the Dom/sub lifestyle. i am a member of another forum, the ticklingmediaforum. and post quite a bit there. i hope to become an active member of this forum. at the moment i am slowly reading a story in which i plan on reviewing since i have been told that the writers like when you review their stories. i only joined this forum last week and hope to stick around if you will have me lol

isabeau