I originally joined to try and learn more about bdsm....hence the name...which has sorta stuck! I had just started in my first r/l, or any kind for that matter, bdsm relationship, and wanted to know everything I could about bdsm and about being submissive. I have learned a lot here, but I must say that r/l learning is much more pleasurable!

I come back for the continued knowledge....can you ever learn too much?? And for the friends I have made here.