I joined up because I saw a bunch of people into the same kind of thing I'm into. And most of the people here seemed like people. I haven't spent that much time in the internet bdsm scene, but the time I have spent had almost made me give up hope for finding human beings into bdsm out here and not one line "masters" trying to bully young girls into having sex. There is a lot of crap out there and here there isn't. I stick around because I think it's important to have save and smart havens like this for our community. I also stick around because I have a lot of fun 'round here.